sorry to hear the problems you are having. i've been there & done that with the wife leaving. it gets better. i wasn't able to go last year because i couldn't get time off. this year i just got lucky i guess.This was to be my year but my employer locked us out in a labor dispute (4 months and counting now) then the wife decides she doesn't want to be married anymore. You folks that are fortunate enough to go will have to post lots of fun details so many of us will want to go next year.